This post will about the basic of the basic. Well, basically this is just my opinion about things so dun take it too seriously or anything. ^^ From what i observed, the way people communicate or how trhey start a relationship depends heavily on the way they were brought up. Environment have the biggest influence over their socializing skill. Do you all agree?
Well,making frens is easy but keeping them is not easy..starting a relationship is harder and keeping it is even harder. How do people actually can cope with all this? what makes a person more sociable? Well, may be is the environment factor. Parents in my opinion do play a big part in this but very often we see the behaviour of their parents are totally different from their kids. The parents could be could be very open while their kids can be very reserved. This depends on how the parents set an example for them and how they treat them. It is well known that a physically and mentally abused child will remain reserved and do not seem to trust anyone. NUTS..what the hell i'm talking about..this seems to be going to be like an secondary school essay.
Coming to my main point, i thinks that people develope their socializing skill by observing and learning..ESPECIALLY from their peers..well, i do have to confessed i had changed and influenced some..hehe...may be some of you know what i'm talking about.. I think i'm more like a talkative and open type of person...after being with me for a certai n time, people will start to make corny jokes like me, well..let's just say they become a bit sohai like me la... A few of my friends are actually quite reserved or they do not socialize easily with people around them before i met them.. EHEM seems like i'm bragging about myself but that's the fact..lol..I came to this university and i had found quite a bunch of friends..Judging by their characteristics...people that came from the same school actually had quite a resemblance in their way of socializing..some of them are quite full of themselves..i mean not to complain about u guys but this is just something i thought..please dun take this to heart lol. I'm not cultured shock about all this as i'm used to confronting a lot of types of people in my lives.. Even something new would not really shocked me a bit. Some really seems open minded but in the end they are not..i met selfish people..note this..it's in plural..although my frens back in USJ had warn me about this but i still glad to come here and meet some people which i considered worth knowing..i do admit i'm selfish at times but with reasons..and who isn't? communicating with people is not easy..it's hard to judge others characteristics..some want people to treat them the way they pleased..well i'm a person that treats people the way treats me..call me judgemental but i think that's the only fair way..i will treat them good initially to really find out who they are...is it worth all the effort to continue? Recently i had an argument with a lot of people ( which is the main reason i blog this shit ) and think this is not new to some of my old friends..i believe argument is also a way of communicating but may be in a negative way..but negativity sometimes produce better results...but in some, it's impossible..i do not have much idea for blogging..just that need some place to get this out of me..thanks for wasting your time reading this..feel free to drop a comment..^^
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Thursday, February 14, 2008
DEEPEST APOLOGY FROM MY HEART..^^
This post is dedicated to all my frens back in USJ..Firstly, i would like to apologised to some whom i did not have much time to meet even during my holidays..lol..had been very busy busy until not much time to meet up with u guys..truly miss all of you and hope i can meet up with u all..i dun usually blog about myself anymore but i'll make an exception here...These are the following people i would like to meet up..
1. Wei Phoi ( long time no dota..tell ur mom i want ang pau )
2. Soon Yee ( Find time yam cha dee )
3. Joshua Ooi ( Sohai...come DOTA..lol..my brother miss u )
$. Caryn ( haha sorry long time neva catch with u )
6. Huimin ( popia...macam tak kenal lagi jer )
7. Tzin Siang ( quack...any nice anime or game? )
8. Jonathan Leong ( so long no see la dude...haihz..say yam cha but u ffk me that time lol )
9. Wai Ken ( gay...when want yam cha again? lol )
10. Pei Ying ( hope can meet up with the rest and chat like last time lol )
11. Pearly ( refer number 10 please... )
12. Chee Meng ( why i wanna meet u anyway??? lol..jk )
13. Sashi ( dude, here no one can be as perverted and sohai like u la..miss having u around..lol )
14. Ellice Lee ( almost forgot u..lol )
15. Daniel Lean ( bro..singapore can come johor find me wan leh lol )
16. Wye Kitt ( long time no hear from u la Sohai )
17. Kelly ( haha wanna see u got grow taller or not although i'm not tall myself.. )
18. Suleen ( Susu Anlene..hehe dun angry k )
19. Cheah Hun ( boss..sorry that day cannot play mah jong..damn pokai leh..haha hope to see u to 'chui sui' )
20. Kien Mun ( Taiko...long time no yam cha also )
21. NARESH ( indon bole? )
22. Miss Foo ( haha believe it or not teacher? )
23. Hin Guan ( lol when want yam cha together with my lou poh chai )
24. Seow Yen ( u also refer above la haha )
25. Jia Qi ( same as above la haha )
To those of my other friends whose name is not written i would like to meet u all wan...dun worry..just that the one listed is different a bit mah... so sorry la k?
Well, i had encountered so many problems and i am being patient a lot...so sometimes i cannot really talk to u all not due to study pressure but also the emotional stress building inside me...i must confessed that i'm not really happy with a few people..may be some already had known my short-temperness but to those who do not know then let me be..may be it's just my style of handling certain situations by refraining to speak up becoz by doing so nothing good will come out..some might thought they know me well, but actually not even close..^^ i do not mean to hurt anyone here..but that's the truth..sometimes i do not look at surrounding factors in making friends..it's just the sincerity and effort being done...some people will think the world had owed them when they are just doing effortless effort and everything must go their way..i think myself as a team player and if there's anyone that gonna spoil the team, i ain't no giving any shit of respect..the problem for a quarrel that i had started in all 21 years of my life are issues concerning respect..i might look open minded and care free but i do look at things at a complicated way..so please qustion me before assuming anything about me...i do not think anyone really know about me except my girl..i'm no being judgemental about people's status but i just go with the flow of communication which means i treat people depending on how they treat me...for the better or for the worse...that's all i gotta blog for now..wait up for my next post..hopefully tomolo..lol BYEEZ
1. Wei Phoi ( long time no dota..tell ur mom i want ang pau )
2. Soon Yee ( Find time yam cha dee )
3. Joshua Ooi ( Sohai...come DOTA..lol..my brother miss u )
$. Caryn ( haha sorry long time neva catch with u )
6. Huimin ( popia...macam tak kenal lagi jer )
7. Tzin Siang ( quack...any nice anime or game? )
8. Jonathan Leong ( so long no see la dude...haihz..say yam cha but u ffk me that time lol )
9. Wai Ken ( gay...when want yam cha again? lol )
10. Pei Ying ( hope can meet up with the rest and chat like last time lol )
11. Pearly ( refer number 10 please... )
12. Chee Meng ( why i wanna meet u anyway??? lol..jk )
13. Sashi ( dude, here no one can be as perverted and sohai like u la..miss having u around..lol )
14. Ellice Lee ( almost forgot u..lol )
15. Daniel Lean ( bro..singapore can come johor find me wan leh lol )
16. Wye Kitt ( long time no hear from u la Sohai )
17. Kelly ( haha wanna see u got grow taller or not although i'm not tall myself.. )
18. Suleen ( Susu Anlene..hehe dun angry k )
19. Cheah Hun ( boss..sorry that day cannot play mah jong..damn pokai leh..haha hope to see u to 'chui sui' )
20. Kien Mun ( Taiko...long time no yam cha also )
21. NARESH ( indon bole? )
22. Miss Foo ( haha believe it or not teacher? )
23. Hin Guan ( lol when want yam cha together with my lou poh chai )
24. Seow Yen ( u also refer above la haha )
25. Jia Qi ( same as above la haha )
To those of my other friends whose name is not written i would like to meet u all wan...dun worry..just that the one listed is different a bit mah... so sorry la k?
Well, i had encountered so many problems and i am being patient a lot...so sometimes i cannot really talk to u all not due to study pressure but also the emotional stress building inside me...i must confessed that i'm not really happy with a few people..may be some already had known my short-temperness but to those who do not know then let me be..may be it's just my style of handling certain situations by refraining to speak up becoz by doing so nothing good will come out..some might thought they know me well, but actually not even close..^^ i do not mean to hurt anyone here..but that's the truth..sometimes i do not look at surrounding factors in making friends..it's just the sincerity and effort being done...some people will think the world had owed them when they are just doing effortless effort and everything must go their way..i think myself as a team player and if there's anyone that gonna spoil the team, i ain't no giving any shit of respect..the problem for a quarrel that i had started in all 21 years of my life are issues concerning respect..i might look open minded and care free but i do look at things at a complicated way..so please qustion me before assuming anything about me...i do not think anyone really know about me except my girl..i'm no being judgemental about people's status but i just go with the flow of communication which means i treat people depending on how they treat me...for the better or for the worse...that's all i gotta blog for now..wait up for my next post..hopefully tomolo..lol BYEEZ
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